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Family Contemplation

Please read each statement or question and, if you're able, please respond.

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Question 1 of 15

Everyone makes mistakes, and we are all learning as we go. But... do you feel like I have good intentions towards you and for you? 
Please explain so that I can gain understanding about your answer.

Question 2 of 15

What are your thoughts about me, just in general, as a person?

Question 3 of 15

What are your thoughts about me as your ___ (mom, etc)?  You can explain those thoughts/feelings from prior years, and now, if they differ.

Question 4 of 15

Do you feel like your happiness matters to me? (Yes/No/Sometimes, or any other answer... but please explain.)

Question 5 of 15

Do you feel like I do my best to accept you for who you are, and encourage you in that? (Explain your answer please.)

Question 6 of 15

What do you feel like I really have done the most wrong, with you?

Question 7 of 15

What do you feel I've done right?

Question 8 of 15

What would you change about our past together, if you could?

Question 9 of 15

What thing(s) do you wish I would do differently, with you, going forward?

Question 10 of 15

What thing(s) do you wish I would do differently, in general, as a person, going forward?

Question 11 of 15

What would you like me to know or understand about you, that you don't feel I do currently?

Question 12 of 15

If I were able to provide some sort of clarity or understanding as to why I've done something, would you be open to hearing that?

Question 13 of 15

If you have, or are holding on to, anger toward me, please tell me what caused it. And, if possible, how can I fix it?

Question 14 of 15

What would you like from me, going forward, from now on?  (As far as a relationship, connection, distance, support, communication, involvement, etc.)

Question 15 of 15

What would you like to add, that I didn't ask or mention?

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